0 - 12 months

PARENTING SUPPORT

As a parent, you may feel you need a bit more parenting support than usual with children being at home more and schools being closed. Here you can find some parenting top tips and advice, guidance on child behaviour and development, and information on parental stress and mental wellbeing.

Practical parenting support

  • Parenting Top Tips (Family Links Nurturing Programme)– A range of top tips to help you deal with challenging behaviour
  • Baby Wants– Activities you can do with a new born baby
  • The Dad Pad–Providing dads to be with the knowledge and practical skills they need to support their partners and give their baby the best possible start in life
  • Family Links– Free downloads with practical tips and ideas for parents
  • The Communication Trust– A range of support and advice for parents of children and young people who struggle to communicate because they have speech, language and communication needs, as well as supporting all children and young people to communicate to the best of their ability
  • Baby Buddy app– Guiding you through your pregnancy and the first 6 months following your baby’s birth. It is designed to help you look after your baby’s mental and physical health, as well as your own
  • Action for Children DOTS– Helpful tips for parents of children aged under 5 as well as one on one chat support
  • NSPCC Support for parents– Parenting tips on all stages of children’s lives, as well as advice on how to deal with difficult situations.

When a child feels their emotional and physical needs are recognised and met by parents and caregivers, they feel secure and confident about their place in the world and their sense of themselves and others.

A secure bond with parents and caregivers helps children to:

  • Feel safe and secure
  • Learn to manage their feelings and regulate their emotions
  • Feel confident to learn, play and explore from a safe base
  • Have empathy and compassion for others
  • Develop long term relationships with adults and peers alike.

Developing a bond with your child

The following resources help parents understand why a strong bond with their children is important and shares ideas on how to develop this bond.

Communication is at the heart of everything we do. It is central to our lifelong learning, confidence, our work, friendships, and having interests that we enjoy.

During a child’s first five years, this is particularly important as we want children to be ready for the transition into an education setting, e.g. school and nursery, and to have their basic needs met. Where children face difficulties with their speech, language or communication, they may find it harder in nursery/school to make friends or to stay calm.

Parents have an important role in supporting their children’s speech, language and communication, and can help develop these areas in a number of ways, including:

  • Interaction and talking with your baby/child
  • Managing the child’s environment, setting consistent limits and clear expectations and ensuring routines are predictable (all of which can help decrease the opportunities for negative emotions to build up)
  • Recognising and helping children understand their emotions.

It is important to remember that children do develop at different rates and that some children may need additional support. If you have any concerns about your child’s development, contact your health visitor.

Communicating with your child

The following websites and resources may be useful for you:

  • Tiny Happy People– A range of information, ideas and activities supporting speech, language and communication from pregnancy to age 5 years
  • I CAN’s Talking Point– Provides information to help you understand and support children and young people’s speech, language and communication
  • 10 top tips to support speech, language and communication skills
  • The Communication Trust– A range of support and advice for parents of children and young people who struggle to communicate because they have speech, language and communication needs as well as supporting all children and young people to communicate to the best of their ability
  • The Literary Trust – Offers a range of activities for children from birth up to age 12
  • Small Talk– A booklet explaining how children learn to talk, from birth to age 5
  • BookTrust– A range of resources and support to help children and families develop a love of reading
  • Book Trust: Dual language books–Information and advice on how to access dual language books
  • Baby Buddy app– Guiding you through your pregnancy and the first 6 months following your baby’s birth. It is designed to help you look after your baby’s mental and physical health, as well as your own.

 

Take a look at the materials listed below to help you develop your baby’s speech and communication skills

Children’s brains change a lot as they grow, and these changes can influence children’s behaviour and how they respond in different situations.

Just like with adults, children’s behaviour can be affected by experiences and environment and/or their parents / carers own life experiences.

However, it is possible to describe what behaviour should look like at different ages and in different situations. Children will not always understand when their behaviour is appropriate or not appropriate, and parents can help them to do this in a positive way.

It is important to remember that every child matures at a different pace. In particular, children with additional needs may not stick to age guides.

General behaviour and development support

 

Tantrums

How to cope with tantrums (NSPCC) – Tips and advice to help you manage temper tantrums and bad behaviour.

Parenting Top Tips (Family Links Nurturing Programme) – A range of top tips to help you deal with challenging behaviour that your children may display

Positive parenting (NSPCC) – Practical advice and tips for positive parenting techniques that work well for children, from babies to teenagers.

  • Two hug day– A guide for parents on how to speak to their children about separation and divorce
  • Separation and divorce (NSPCC)– Your rights around child contact and advice for supporting children during a separation
  • Zero to Three– An online resource for parents who are living apart and parenting together.

There are a range of online parenting courses that have been proven to help parents, and we include details of the courses below (please note that there is a cost to access the parenting courses).

CHILD HEALTH

Here you can find guidance on how to keep your baby healthy, such as keeping their sleeping routine and support with feeding.

Newborn screenings

Your baby will have an immediate physical external examination after birth, and a newborn hearing screening within 4-5 weeks of birth depending on whether the birth was hospital or community based.

Newborn screenings (NHS)

Your baby’s vaccination schedule – Download a vaccination planner to stick on your fridge.

Further vaccinations and immunisations 

All parents want to keep their children safe, we know how important it is to use a car seats, a fireguard or a stair gate, but did you know that one of the best ways to protect them is to make sure they have all of their vaccinations?

Vaccinating your child serves two important purposes:

  • Vaccines protect the individual child
  • Vaccines prevent your child from spreading diseases to other people.

Childhood vaccinations are safe and important – further guidance can be found below. 

Vitamins and supplements

Safety Advice

Breastfeeding

Breast milk is tailor made for your baby, free and always available. Breast milk provides the best nourishment for your baby, and there are many health benefits for both you and your baby, short term and long term.

Tongue tie and milk supply 

Formula feeding

You may make the decision to feed your baby with formula milk, rather than breastfeeding. This is a personal choice which you can discuss with your midwife or health visitor.

Safe sleep

There is no known reason why some babies die suddenly from sudden infant death syndrome (SIDS).

You can find further information about how to reduce the risk of SIDS by visiting:

Sleep routines

Sleep is extremely important for children’s physical and emotional development, health and wellbeing, and can be a potential cause of behavioural issues.

As children and young people grow, the advice about how much sleep they need changes, as does the advice about how to encourage and support children into good sleeping patterns.

  • NHS Choices website – provides the approximate hours of sleep needed by children of different ages, as recommended by the Millpond Children’s Sleep Clinic
  • Sleep Foundation– provides advice about sleep requirements and patterns at different ages
  • World Health Organisation– guidelines on physical activity, sedentary behaviour and sleep for children under 5.

Challenges around sleep

  • The Sleep Councilprovides helpful advice for a range of circumstances
  • Sleep for Kidsprovides a range of advice, resources and games to help parents get their children to sleep.

HOME LEARNING AND ACTIVITIES

Learning can take many forms, babies and toddlers can learn a lot through play. Here you can find lots of ideas and activities to help keep your children entertained and active while they are at home.

Physical activity ideas and other websites for your baby or toddler 

Physical activity materials for your baby or toddler 

Below you will find a range of at home activities to try with your toddlers and children – have fun!

FURTHER HELP AND SUPPORT

You may need support with other areas of your life which have been impacted. Here you can find information around finances and housing, and how to keep in touch with your local Start Well Family Centre.

Finance support

Report a change in circumstances

If you are already receiving Housing Benefit or Council Tax Reduction you must tell the council about a change in your circumstances within 30 days, this includes:

  • Losing or getting a job
  • Having a baby
  • A partner moving in or out.

Wigan Council Benefits Support

StepChange Debt Charity

Universal Credit

Child Tax Credit is a benefit that helps with the cost of raising a child if you are on a low income. It is one of six benefits being replaced by Universal Credit.

Further advice and guidance

Are you at risk of being homeless?

Visit Wigan Council to get support if you’re homeless or at risk of becoming homeless.

The council must provide emergency accommodation if you’re homeless and have children or are pregnant.

You can also contact Shelter for free, independent advice.

Visit the Wigan Council Family Directory to find information on childcare in the borough.